Life is all about sacrificing the things we love for the things that are good for us. Sadly, good things can be bitter, and sometimes might also sting big time. the same goes in a relationship. more compromises are made with every passing day. today you’d have to compromise your girls night out to look after your sick spouse, tomorrow, he has to cook because you are preparing for an exam. every single decision a partner made will ultimately results in the lost of authority in the other. even though people might say that, No, we have a healthy relationship where every situation is a win-win situation, I’d say BS! you’re a liar! there is no win-win situation in this world. y ou are just lucky because your partner have decided that it is not worth it trying to get her/his way around you.
So knowing that this is the nature of a partnership, I’d say that anyone who enters one is an IDIOT. you are giving your freedom away or at least making a lifetime commitment to make compromise all the time, to what? a family institution? is that what you thrive for? Don’t you have better ambitions for your precious life? may be that’s why some people tried marriage for a couple of years and ditch it and become gays and lesbians…(no pun intended).
but I have to also admit it that it takes courage, self discipline, high levels of tolerance, and bucket loads of patience, and more patience to keep a relationship alive. There is no one self sufficient women who are married that does not think of an easy way out of a relationship… to end the constant battle of who’s voice is better heard in the house. even if they don’t voice it out, they think about it at least once. but being wives, they persevere… patiently believing that their sacrifice will pay… someone will notice and will appreciate what they are doing. well suckers, go on dreaming. if it is your dreams that help you live day by day then, don’t stop believing… cause the truth will kill you.
I know, what your blog represents who you are, so if this entry depicts that I am a bitch then what the hell… accept the fact that good things can be bitter, and sometimes might also sting big time. but for all that is worth, I believe in the concept of marriage, I believe in family, I know that it is not easy to maintain a healthy marriage let alone a happy one, But I so freaking believe that marriage will enrich you, and that you will ultimately serve your purpose in life through marriage…however suck it might be, it works.